Christmas Visit - I'll be home for Christmas

The bittersweet sensation of being outbid

Tue, 06 Jun 2006 08:25:03 -0700

You know how it is, you see something on ebay that strikes your interest and bid. Then you research the item elsewhere or even on ebay and find it quite a bit cheaper and hold your breath while until the end of your auction waiting and hoping to be outbid. Checking your new email hoping you get an outbid notice, checking the auction page every once in a while.

What's next?

Thu, 01 Jun 2006 19:21:04 -0700

The cause of the accident has been determined. Apparently the driver's phone was ringing, he dropped it and reached down to the floor of the vehicle to pick it up, pulling the steering wheel with him.

More...

Wed, 19 Apr 2006 06:14:50 -0700

Spoke with my mother and sister a night or so ago. Mum has moved back home, during the daytime hours. Spends the nights at her sister's place is what they told me. Apparently there was some fighting between my sister and her husband about money and other issues that mum couldn't listen to any more. I'm not sure if this is good or bad. We'll see.

Apparently the brain test she had needs to be reinforced with another one, the results will be coming in the next few weeks.

Finally, a little forward momentum...

Sun, 26 Mar 2006 09:33:57 -0800

I got a chance to catch up with my mother and sister this weekend, mum is doing a little better but there is a small fear of some sort of brain injury. She seems the same to me if you allow a little room for depression and repressed anger, all the usual feelings that you'd expect when the love of your life has been prematurely taken from you. She will need to take what has been referred to in layman's terms as a brain test. Basically being isolated and observed for 5 days. Sounds pretty taxing to me. The will has been read and Kieran's children are probably going to protest it but mum's lawyer says the will is pretty solid.

The problems with debit cards.

Fri, 17 Mar 2006 10:06:47 -0800

I have been using my debit card for almost every transaction for a few years now and have realised several problems with them. They use the familiar credit card model. Unfortunately, credit cards weren't designed to be used every day for almost every transaction.

After receiving my latest replacement card last May(2005), the signature had worn off by August. Over time I have used different pens and inks to sign my card, from ballpoint ink pens to permanent markers. They all wear off in only a matter of months.

A little holiday can be a good thing

Thu, 02 Mar 2006 19:18:05 -0800

My sister took mum on a small holiday to the beach. It seems to have done some good. There are still plenty of issues to be looked after of course, but mum seems to be in a little better spirits.

Words...

Mon, 16 Jan 2006 19:47:48 -0800

What do you say to someone who has lost the love of their life decades before they should have?
What do you say to them when you are half a world away? What do you tell her when she feels like she isn't getting over the event even though it's only been a few months?

Alas, can't happen this year

Sat, 10 Dec 2005 11:05:58 -0800

There's good news and then there's bad news. Since I was recently offered a new job that I couldn't really refuse accepting as the pay is good and the opportunity is more in line with my skillset and career goals. The bad news is that I won't be able to take any time off until March at the earliest as there's the whole 90 day waiting period.

Now I must let the family know that it's not a possibility. Fortunately phone calls are fairly inexpensive.

Home again, Home again...

Thu, 01 Dec 2005 12:12:10 -0800

Mum has been taken home to my sister's place. She has moved in with her. After redoing the bathroom to make it more accessible and user friendly for someone with limited mobility. It does sound like she is moving around a lot better now, able to walk up stairs. The one ankle that had to be operated on is swollen and isn't small enough to allow a shoe to cover it yet. That will change in time.

Latest news from the patient

Mon, 07 Nov 2005 10:15:48 -0800

Mum has had her final cast removed and is putting a little weight on that foot. She is by no means walking on it. After multiple bone fractures and pins placed in it, the ankle and foot will take some time to get back to any semblance of normal.

Some new and interesting twists.

Fri, 04 Nov 2005 11:09:51 -0800

I just got off the phone with my sister. It seems that the towing company wants around $1000 AUD for towing the car and that Telstra wants about 900 or so AUD for the early termination of my step father's mobile phone contract. We are talking with the Telecommunications Industry Ombudsman to see what we can do to settle the issue.

Why is this site here?

Thu, 03 Nov 2005 12:58:40 -0800

On August 26th my mother and step father were involved in a head-on collision with another vehicle. According to the police on scene the other driver was at fault. Unfortunately it was no minor incident, it killed my step father instantly and my mother has been in hospital ever since.

All this happened in Australia while I am currently living in the USA.